• http://badassu.net/ Mark Insight

    Crushing it man.

    I did some pickup two days ago after a long break. Surprised how long it took me to get going. It even got a little depressing. After once I did it is the most awesome feeling.

    • http://www.dawnofchange.com/ Onder Hassan

      Thanks Mark,
      I’m actually so far behind on my posts on this that it’s not even funny lol
      I’m going to be posting my update for the third week tomorrow. Don’t want to rush the content as I want it to be as informative as possible.
      Awesome that you went out and took action.
      I’ve actually not gone out in the last 2 weeks due to the bad weather in London.
      Got a lot of catching up to do.

  • http://www.psycholocrazy.com/ jamie flexman

    You could also do the (warm) cold approach. It goes something like this…

    Break barrier by asking a simple question such as ‘Hey where can I find a good shop that sells blah blah’.. engage in conversation for 30 seconds if possible.. then say..

    ‘You know what, the reason I spoke to you was because I found you really cute and I had to come and say hi.. but I didn’t know what to say..’

    Then shutting up and let her speak next.

    It’s something to consider if your cold approaches aren’t starting too well.

    Great job though. You’re doing better than 99.9% of men because you’re actually doing it.

    • http://www.dawnofchange.com/ Onder Hassan

      Thanks for the advice Jamie,

      You’re spot on about the opener because I’m starting to notice that going in direct is very hit and miss and have very little room for error when opening a girl like that. She has to make a quick decision whether to stay in conversation or leave.

      Your way makes sense because you’re using the opener to gauge how she responds and then using her response to calibrate whether to continue having chit-chat or going direct. I find when girls seem interested up front and give off positive cues that they’re into me, going direct seems to be a lot more powerful.

      I actually did what you suggested in a video, which i’ve yet to post but will on my fourth week update (I’m very behind on updates).

      Spoke with a Russian girl asking for advice for gift ideas for my mum’s birthday and was confused that a guy was talking to her and not trying to hit on her lol

      Thanks for the encouragement!

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